Wednesday, September 17, 2025

Bikes make friends

I had to make another run to the funeral home to deal with a spelling error in the death certificate and drop off the thumb drive that Rich's daughter and I put together.

I didn't want to waste the 26+ mile trip on just dropping off paperwork again. So I'd put my bike in the back of the 'Ru and thought I'd tried a bike trail that Rich told me about. The Richland Center Bike Trail. It runs from Richland Center town all the way to a place called Lone Rock. It's an old train bed that was converted into a trail. 

I'd picked a parking spot to the trail head in a place called Twin Bluffs. My thought was to ride towards a town called Gotham [Batman!] and then see what the trail looked like headed then back towards Richland Center.

The trail was fairly well maintained and obviously had some damage to the wooden bridges from the snowmobile traffic in the winter. 
Basically it was an out and back ride. It felt nice. What was even stranger was when my inner clock that told me I'd been gone too long it made me feel odd. I had to resist lookin at my watch.

Then I ignored it. I had all the time I wanted. Yes, it felt pretty strange.

When I got back to where I'd parked, there was a guy sitting on a picnic table that had a roof over it. The shade looked inviting, so I asked if I could share the shade with him. He waved me over.

Actually we'd just passed by each other when I walked out of the funeral home. His 3 wheeler E-bike was parked on the sidewalk by my car. I admired it because I figured one day, I'd be using one.

I said, "Geeze, we walked right by each other at Pratt's!"
"Yup," he replied.

"Wow, you have an awesome bike or trike. It looks great!" I nodded at his 3 wheeler when I sat down at the picnic table we were sharing.

"I may get one in the future, how do you like it?"

His name was Tony. He'd recently had a stroke and he liked to get out in nature so after wearing out a homemade E-trike, he'd gotten this one. 

He shrugged and smiled. "At least you didn't say I was cheating by using an E-trike."

I blew raspberries and said, "Dude! I am jealous!"

We discussed that a bit and I told him that what he was doing was awesome. His balance was poor as well as issues with his knees.

"What a perfect way to get out and see nature," I told him.

We talked a good long while and he told me about the wildlife I could see while riding this trail and where the best places were. 

We were different athletes with common goals. Ride bikes onto a bike trail to enjoy nature and the peace it brings us.

We then talked about the other trails that the dude at the funeral home had suggested. There is one near Preston MN that was paved and beautiful along the Root River. We both discussed how we'd love to ride that.

I commented that his trike was an excellent choice for him to get out and find the peace and joy he could find in the outdoors. I told him that I was considering a pet trailer for my little dog. 

He then said he didn't ride on weekends because there were too many people zipping by and telling him he shouldn't be 'cheating'.

[There was a look of hurt in his eyes when he made that comment.]

I told him that his physical injuries were invisible. I said, "I wonder if you wrapped yourself up with bloody ace bandages and painted on a black eye, if people would be more understanding."

Tony suddenly went motionless. "You get it." He chuckled.
I said, "I do. My husband was a Veteran with invisible injuries. People didn't understand. But I did."

I ate my snacks and we talked some more. Trails, maintenance, the bridges, the river, the weather, and nothing important.

I stood up and shook his hand. 

"Tony, I sure hope to run into you again on this trail. It has been a pleasure to meet you and your awesome bike."

Tony shook my hand and smiled. The Grizzly ol' Tony seemed to have found something other than just nature to smile about.

"Yeah. I hope we run into each other again."

Some cell phone shots from today.

Heading east on the trail.


 Oh what wonders! I stood here for a long time watching 
the Monarch butterflies who danced around my head!


Some of the areas of the trail were covered with shade
from a thick canopy above.


It also seemed to be a perfect day to use my Infrared camera and enjoy some colors of another light spectrum.

These are photos of the Pine River that runs through Richland Center and along the bike/multi use trail. I have another 10 or so miles to explore of this trail. 
My new acquaintance told me where the best views of the river were. 





I was so relaxed and chilled out when I got home that I was able to finish up some weed whacking and hand mowing. I agree with Mr. Tony. Nature brings a bit of peace to our lives.

A little bit of kindness and consideration go such a long way. Don't judge a book by its cover.

I like my bike. I liked his bike/trike. We enjoyed conversation. 



It was a good day.

21 comments:

  1. This was a great day! Thank you for introducing us to Tony!

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    1. It was Miss Merry! I enjoyed talking with someone and not about funeral plans and such like.

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  2. I saw one of the little electric scooters today with a seat. I'm honestly thinking of getting one but a trike sounds good too. How nice you met Tony and blessed him with your kindness. I have been thinking a lot about you this week Val. Lovely that you are getting out. I always tell friends to get into nature, good for us all. Sending love and a hug.

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    1. The trike would help maintain your quad muscles in your legs and yet allow you to go all over the place without tiring!
      The E Trike is really a great tool for those with bad knees and poor balance.
      Thanks. I am still here plugging along and finally getting off the farm to do something other than errands.

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  3. Anonymous1:22 AM

    Thank you for sharing your deep thoughts and opening my mind to what may seem like a small gesture to some, is healing to others. Daily life can be spiritual as you have shown us…and Tony. God Bless, Val 🙏🏼
    -Jonny or Salty Lens 😆

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    1. Awww Johnny! Thanks for the visit from Flickr! I hope we can meet up when I make my trip to the Big Island in the next year.

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  4. An encounter well recounted. Many happy trails to you.

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  5. Thanks for your empathy. I am sure you made a friend today and brought a good deal of happiness to his life.

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    1. I loved his trike too!
      Everyone deserves respect and to be listened to.

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  6. Anonymous8:25 AM

    What a good day! Beautiful photos and a new friend. After my knee replacement I bought a regular trike and it helped me so much. Definately good for the quads. Tony's E Trike sounds great!
    Charlie would love to join you on your bike rides. He would fit in the basket on my trike. Lori

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    1. Yes! I like your trike, no tipping over! And great exercise!

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  7. I can't get past people having the audacity to criticize Tony's choice of bike. It's none of their business and they know nothing about him. Humph! I am happy for you to have such a pleasant day.

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    1. I used to look at those bikes as cheaters also. However, we never know what the story is AND it isn't my business anyway.

      When I spent the last 6 months dealing with a wheelchair chair and access to places, I got a ride awakening.

      I've learned my lesson now.
      I do not judge anyone anymore.

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  8. Nature and kindness- two of the most healing things.

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  9. That is a lovely post. As a professional caregiver, I hear you about the former pressure of time. I have two client now, after a summer of lazy. I'm so happy to get out of the house, in a controlled environment.
    My biking days are over. Things change.
    I agree about the invisible illness. People are quick to judge, and not willing to try understand.
    You go, girl!

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  10. I hear you on thinking oh, I have to get back before remembering no, you had time. It took me ages to get used to that freedom. You were very encouraging to the trike rider. I bet that made him feel good for ages.

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  11. You had a good visit with a cool guy:) I am so glad you got out for some forest and riding therapy:)

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  12. These are beautiful shots, Val. You are such a kind, fun and strong person. It's always great to meet new, friendly people.

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  13. Nature flanked bike trails are so pretty. Enjoy your pedaling!

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