Tuesday, July 08, 2025

Just another ordinary week.

When one day feels like a whole week....

Sometimes I can get out for a walk and to beat the heat, the last few walks I've done have been at sunset. I set hubby up with a TV show and go for long walk on the ridge. The woods are thick with brush and skeeters at this time of night.

Usually there is a breeze on the ridge and if I am lucky, the skies are beautiful also.

The shot below is looking back at our house as I head up the driveway.



This one is taken at our mailbox on the ridge looking east.


I turn around here and head back home, I know how long I can be out and about and time the walk with the end of the show.



After putting him to bed, I headed back out on to the porch to see the moon come over the trees. It was nice to look at.



I couldn't resist trying to take another shot[s] of the fireflies. I guess they have been my obsession this year since I've been watching them since late May.

They were quite active. I imagine the heat and humidity keeps them going. [The moon was not that large, I put it there to hide the smear of light from the long exposure.]



I spent the morning working on the wreck of one of my favorite little pastures.


I am lucky that my mules obey one single hot wire and don't bother it. There is a fence in that mess, it is a 4 strand barbed wire fence that had a single hot wire running on the inside of it. The mules have lived with this boundary for 20 years and have no desire to push through it. They have plenty of feed on this side of the fence.

I put a single hot wire over the trees and inside the pasture away from the mess.


I went back to check on the forest and saw this.


I need a chainsaw gang to cut through this mess or just let the animals find a way around it. I'm going to shorten the availability of the forest and lessen my fencing work.

There are 3 more trees down across the fence above the creek. I'm going to pull the hot wire and this fall pull the posts. The gals don't need to go all the way down there any more.

I've made an executive decision to have the southern pasture [field] mowed. I'll hire the guy that did my trees last year. I have some work for him to do so this place doesn't look like a disaster area.

I did take a break and worked on my Echo weed eater.


I thought I had it fixed and ... I didn't. I may need a 'new' head for it. However, I did get the trimming done with only one line attached. When I ran into the tough stuff, the machete worked out well.

It seems that I get the yard mowed, we have inches of rain, humidity, ... I catch up a bit on the garden and the trimming ... and 

back to mowing. I have an inner sense of time. I do some work, run to the house and check on hubby, go back out, work...come inside, meds...lunch... and then chill out time for a bit in the heat of the day.

I DO find some time to chill out.

In fact I decided to take a hint from Aurora ... I decided to make a raft for my Legos. It was a way that my husband could be amused and I could spend some quiet time indoors.


Hot glue, strands of twine, moss to cover the mess.... and...


It looks like a pretty neat little raft...


It won't float for real..., but this guy can use it in his escape from dinosaurs...

at least when I get around to setting that up....

Here is this little piece of serenity. Bachelor Bucks in Velvet having their night out.


Today is Tuesday and I have a major car repair that can't wait. Wednesday sounds like a fishing day with Steve. Yesterday we saw the Social Worker and his nurse. I'll be firing our Respite Gal after today. I cannot cannot trust someone who is not responsible enough to get to her job on time with my husband's care. 

He doesn't trust her any more either so it is no longer a good fit.

The pressure is on and I am working details out on how to continue care here at home and do the things I need to do.

Last night I went to the hill north of the house to watch the sky and the field. The moon rose behind me and I enjoyed the show. 

I LOVE fireflies, this summer they have given me hope and courage with their bright lights and flickers.


PS-- Hubby needed my help while I was up there and he opened up the bedroom window and rang the cowbell.

😉😊😁😀...and that my dear friends worked so well!




6 comments:

  1. I would think that capturing fireflies on film is darn near impossible!

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  2. More Cowbell! Sorry, that just popped out.
    You have mastered this situation to the best of your ability. I admire you so much.
    Do you ever feel the urge to just go to the top of a hill and just scream? And then wonder if it is even worth the energy?
    I'm sorry the respite did not work out. I hope she shows up today in time for the car repair. I know we all wish we could help you out. It is not fair.

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    1. Yes, I have done that upon the death of my father in law and my own father, both in the same month.

      Normally when super upset, I find some hard work to do and burn off the frustration.
      I'm working through this.

      Yes, the cow bell works well. So does the car alarm when I am mowing!

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  3. Your week isn't so ordinary. Glad you have the insight to fire the inept worker. As a hospice RN, I saw so many aides that just had no work ethic and families were afraid to let go of them. I SAW a firefly on my porch when arriving home yesterday! Yea! One is still ticking in suburban K.C. You have jillions on them! Linda in Kansas

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    1. I was hesitant because Respite workers are so hard to come by. However, if I can't depend on them, how can I trust them?
      I'll get through this journey somehow.
      The fireflies are so many!

      Long grasses, forest, and no sprays on the grasses help them live under the surface of the ground.

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  4. Love your raft!! Not sure why it wouldn't float {shrugs shoulders}. Guess I wouldn't know. I have never made a raft. Nice that hubby enjoyed the rafting ('er crafting) as well.

    I showed Brad your buck shot. Deer grow so much bigger in your neck of the woods!

    Sorry about all the down trees and fence line. Most of ours that fell this Summer are out of the way, except for the last one. Tree clearing is a never ending job, and fixing fence as well.

    No doubt the unknown of today was weighing a bit heavy. It would for me. Depending on others is hard. Especially when they are not dependable. Truly hope your Tuesday morning went as planned.

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