Wednesday, July 30, 2025

Destinations...

My neighbor to the west of us came over yesterday to see about cutting down the pasture/weeds that have overgrown the area in front of the house. This is also one of the only flat-ish areas we have on our land.

Gary came over with his brand new tractor and my jaw hit the driveway gravel when I saw it. What a nice machine he finally got himself. A/C, Heat, and every other nice thing you could want in any vehicle.
He has a skid steer, a bulldozer, and cool attachments for his skid steer which is huge!

He made short work of my weeds and said the 6 ft burdock plants bogged his machine down. Imagine. I thought I could go out there with a machete and cut them. Huh. Guess I was kidding myself.

The mules are finding more grasses and browsing on the cut up plants. They don't seem particularly hungry which means they are finding good stuff all over the place.



Gary then thought he'd mess around a bit in the back side or the other meadow. He brush hogged all the multiflora rose bushes I'd been fighting for years against. He made very short work of the thistle patches. 




 When he was finished, he stopped by the house and visited with Rich for a little bit. 

I'd told Gary I'd pay him and handed him the $$$ for the current going rate for brush hogging. He peeked at the cash and then started to refuse and I said, "Please take it. Running a tractor like that costs fuel and your time. Plus, do something nice ... like take Kim out to dinner."

He looked sheepish as he pocketed the money. Rich concurred. Gary then said he was going to repair our common fence on the west side. He was going to get some cattle again to keep down the brush and grasses in his acreage. He told us that now that Kim was retired, she liked to walk on their land.  Without cattle for the past 4 years, the brush and undergrowth has gotten out of hand.

His comment was: I caught hell for her not being able to hike around and look for sheds because the woods are full of crap now that we don't have cattle.

I offered to help with the fencing. We are supposed to split the cost when doing common fences between neighbors. 

Seeing as that the fence hasn't been fixed well in over 30 years, it was really time. I can help with sharing the costs, but not much in chain sawing and stringing fence as I have to be close to the house.

Today, Wednesday, is supposed to be a fishing day, but the guy I hired last year to take down 6 trees texted me last night to come out and give me an estimate on some other work I'd like done to the yard. 

He has free time to do estimates on rainy days. I do like working with him. He is young, curteous, and does good work. AND he keeps in contact with me even when he is busy and can't get out to see me right away.

 I am also hoping to have some kind of excavating --> brush cleaning to a difficult part of the 'forest' that the gals like to hang out in. I'm going to change fencing to a more limited area. After all, I only have 3 equine left and they can't keep up with all of the growth. I can build the fence, but need an area cleared to do it.

The end game is to make this place look much nicer so it doesn't look  neglected by a couple of old fools. 

When, in the future, I am ready to move off the farm, I want it the farm to look  like a charming place instead of weedy overgrown pastures and piles of 'good' junk stuff.

I'm starting now, because in a few years, I will probably move to an area where I can get public transport, groceries delivered, access to bike trails, parks, and health care close by. I realize that I eventually won't do well in a such a remote place.

I will miss my starry nights and forest trails. But I'm sure I can find happiness in just about any place I choose to live.

The conundrum is this. If I get this little farm looking exactly how I imagine it should be, then I will I leave?

Life is a process isn't it?







17 comments:

  1. I feel like you were right here talking about my place. The same problems. Age and property aren't necessarily a good thing. I don't want to move but I know I will probably need to at sometime. You have really good neighbors. You have that going for you.

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    1. Well, hiring someone to do it actually made me feel so much better about things. I worried too much when things were out of my control. Now I feel more in control of things.

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  2. Your neighbor and his race car tractor seem really nice. Just do what you can that make you smile. Linda in Kansas

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    1. I admired his tractor with thoughts of how fun it would be to drive one and then recalled that machinery and I don't get along well.
      He was so nice to do that for me.

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  3. Wow, that is quite the tractor. It is amazing how fancy they make them these days (but great for the operator). Our forefathers minds would be blown.
    I have several friends who have moved to "condos". I can't ever move. We have spent a lifetime making our home the way we want it. I just need the bathroom finished!
    You do have the best neighbors.

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    1. Anonymous3:54 PM

      LD. I am glad you got that job done. I see how healthy peoples gardens are looking and I feel like I need to start over. I paid a guy who worked for me for two days and he also was shocked but pleased as he thought he was just doing me a favor.

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    2. LD, that is great!

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    3. Miss Merry, I could see a condo I guess, but I'd have to be able to have a nice little pet to keep me company. This is the longest I've ever lived in one place, but I was pretty used to adjusting and moving often when I was a kid and a young adult.

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  4. That last quotation sums everything up perfectly! Your plans for the future are good ones.

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  5. Anonymous6:01 PM

    Mowing pastures makes such a difference. I love having mine without tall weeds, burdocks etc.... makes a difference with bugs and ticks too. You have been accomplishing a lot lately! I sure don't want to move. Lori

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    1. True. However the forest can't be mowed because of steep hillsides, trees, rocks, and rock outcroppings. This is the only open space we have on our land aside from the yard. Even these little fields have rocks and other obstacles that a regular mower cannot negotiate.
      I'm happy that you can stay at your place with all the help you get from the grands and your family. What if you were solo?
      That is my situation.

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  6. Wow that is nice equipment! Looks like it made short work of your weeds:) Nice neighbor!

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  7. Sounds like you have a good neighbour. Enjoy the farm for as long as you can. Those days of diminished capability will come soon enough, so deal with them only when you have to. In the meantime, keep enjoying those starry nights.

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  8. I would love to have someone like that come and do the rough cut on our 15 acre pasture field! I too don't have enough equines to keep things under control.
    Good neighbours make life much better.

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    1. I understand completely. I am hiring someone to do it from now on.

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  9. Wow, Val! You are really amazing. That’s a lot to take care of. I’m glad you can find/hire someone to help you with everything. It’s wonderful to have good neighbors.

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    1. Yes I do. Hubby used to do a lot but the past 10 years have been with me in charge. Good neighbors are great and we've been lucky.
      We did have awful neighbors for about 4 years, but they left ... thank goodness!

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