When we got Opal years ago, she was a 'dysfunctional' mule.
Simply put, she hated people.
She distrusted them.
Any person.
Male.
Female.
Yet once caught, she was an exceptional ride.
She reined and spun on a dime.
She could do barrels, poles, and cut cattle.
She was 'hot', always ready to burst out and go hard.
She'd climb anything you pointed her at.
The perfect mule.
Except you could not catch her, she was terribly ear-shy, and well...you know the rest.
Last night I caught her.
I simply walked out and called her name.
She walked up to me.
I saddled her and we went for an evening ride.
When I put her back in the Meadow, she simply stood by the gate.
I walked away and then turned back.
Would she?
I went through the gate and she came to me.
I rubbed her head, stroked her poll and ears. I gave her a good thorough ear rubbing.
She groaned and leaned forward.
I ran my hands all over her.
She sighed.
I finally had to tell her good-bye as the light was fading.
She stood and watched me.
Finally.
Finally.
I had earned her trust?
Thank you Opal for letting me earn my way into your heart and for giving people ... one person, a second chance.
Tonight I went out to the 'Merry Meadow'...[sorry folks, but my Grand daughter Ariel came up with that name and by goodness, it sure has stuck! Thank you so MUCH Ariel!]...
I just wanted to check on Opal and Badger who are out with the jennet donkeys.
Morris and I stood near the fence in the meadow. I called out to Badger and Opal.
I hadn't touched Opal since our ride on the 16th.
I was wondering if she'd actually come to me ... or fall back on her old ways of being dodgy and wild.
To my utter surprise she followed Badger and walked right up to me. No snort, or hesitation at all on her part.
As a test, I just reached out and began to rub her head between her eyes and up over her ears.
[Normally, you have to offer the back of your hand and let her smell it ... she will back off and then come forward after a snort or two.]
She just leaned into my hand.
My other hand was busy rubbing Badger on the nose.
Morris trotted around the two mules panting and looking happy.
I turned and checked Badger's respiration rate and did a pulse check. It isn't the best, but he's gained a tad bit of weight and seems quite content to graze and not work at all.
To my surprise Opal moved closer in to me and nudged my hand with her nose.
If I'd had false teeth, they would have fallen out of my mouth.
I petted her on the neck and headed back towards the gate.
On my right, Badger 'heeled' to my shoulder.
On my left, Opal 'heeled' to my other shoulder.
If I stepped slightly in one direction or another, they both maintained position.
I wanted to laugh.
Morris ran circles.
I wanted to shout out to the world about how Opal was now my friend.
Instead of shouting, I went through the gate and did a 'happy dance' all the way back to the house.
So the big day came.
Opal had been released into the 'Merry Meadow' with the donkeys and a young mule.
My husband said I'd never catch her out in the meadow.
NOT with a lead rope on my shoulder..nope
nope
nope
no
way.
I had the 'secret weapon' in my pocket, in fact I had two of them.
Horse cookies.
Kindness, persistence, building trust, catching, and repeated daily contact was now going to be tested.
I laid the bright red rope on my shoulder and stepped into the pasture.
Off in the distance her ears perked up and she made a bee line for me.
I showed her the cookie.
She smelled it. Backed away.
I held the cookie out again.
She stepped up.
I kept the 'secret weapon' in my hand as I stroked her head and ears. Then I showed her the lead rope and attached it.
She munched happily on the cookie.
We saddled up and went for a cruise.
Funny how she acted like Badger, just dogging along looking around and being gentle and quiet.
Not the racey fired up mule my husband rode.
A quiet content mule.
I got off several times to take photos with my fugly pink camera.
I even sat on a stump and discussed life with her.
She seemed not to mind at all, especially if she was allowed to graze.
We wandered PeeWee's land and stopped to gaze down into 'the cave'. We stopped and watched water in the creek below while standing on 'MaidenHair Fern' Trail.
She was happy with me, content with my company.
I felt safe with her.
She even let me hug her.
As the evening set in on the ridge, I took her back to the Meadow and released her...
offering the second 'Horse Cookie' as reward and a reminder.
She stood close to me and when Eddie the donkey tried to come around and push her away, she laid her ears back and swung a foot at him.
I'd won.
Opal now liked a human.
When that storm comes don’t run for cover
When that storm comes don’t run for cover
When that storm comes don’t run for cover
Don’t run from the coming storm
No their aint no use in runnin
When that rain falls, let it wash away
When that rain falls, let it wash away
When that rain falls, let it wash away
Let it wash away that fallin rain the tears and the trouble
When those lights flash hear that thunder roll
When those lights flash hear that thunder roll
When those lights flash hear that thunder roll
When you listen to that thunder roar, let your spirit soar
Wailin' Jennys~Storm Comin' Lyrics
First let me say that I take each animal's life on my farm with great concern and compassion. TS is no different.
Today his mom, Valerie, apparently would not let him nurse. This morning he was bright and bold, this afternoon he was again weak.
To make a long story short, we penned Valerie who had a royal fit and tied her up.
We tried to put TS on her teats but he seemed not to know what to do or perhaps he was unable...that I will never know.
I'd suggested having milk replacer on hand, but the other half was against it. Said...*he'd do fine, he just had to do it.*
Now I know enough that Valerie is a very young heifer and perhaps her teats were sore...or perhaps she is not yet mature enough. She seems to want to be a good mom, but TS had a tough start.
Frustrated, my husband asked if I had 'any better ideas'. Yeah it was a tense moment.
I said 'of course I did' and proceeded to try and find a baby bottle.
I found a small container and a large 2 oz. syringe with no needle.
I milked Valerie. She has never been milked. She was very unhappy with me at first...
Anyone who knows a Dexter knows how short they are. I had to milk very close to the ground and one time she kicked a partially full container out of my hand.
I was determined.
I was able to milk her.
Perseverance.
TS wasn't real receptive at first, but I held him in my lap and dripped the warm milk into his mouth.
After 2 oz. he began to get lively and greedy. Even stood up to take the milk.
After about 7 1/2 oz. he seemed full.
I stripped Valerie of the rest of her milk and then with hubby's help, let her go.
Oh yeah, I was a mess, warm fresh milk all over my clothes and dirt and manure all over me. But I was pleased and hopeful that my efforts had paid off.
Now here is the funny part.
TS was content to lay down and go to sleep after a brief spurt of energy.
He was shivering lightly.
I grabbed him and put him in my lap, close to me.
Hubby asked if I was going to let TS sleep with me.
I quipped 'No, but I am tempted to sleep with him in the pasture!'
And the truth is, if it had been colder, I would have.
I have a sneaking suspicion that I'll be out there tonight.
After all, I'm a momma too.