Sunday, March 22, 2026

I know a Guy

The internet isn't all it is cracked up to be. The old "I know a guy" word of mouth is so much faster and interesting.

I don't know how to explain it.

Frank, the plow guy said, "I know some guys." 

This was when I was exploring a way to get rid of my MIL's old Buick LeSabre [2005] that had been parked in my yard since 2018. We took it from her when she was told that she could no longer drive. She had dementia and other health issues. So we parked it in our yard so she wouldn't kill someone on the road. We paid a heavy price of anger for that, but she soon forgot she had a car.

My husband wouldn't let go of the vehicle so it sat there in the weeds being a home to mice and other varmints since March of 2018. It became a fixture like you find in  many rural farms. 

Hubby often said he wanted to make sure that nothing of value was left in the car. He never went out to check. 

There might be some Romance Novels and many mouse nests, but nothing of real value. We argued about it often. But I relented as it was something he couldn't let go of even after her death in 2020.

Some young guys showed up today and said that Frank [the plow guy] had alerted them to a car they might be interested in. They wanted to buy it for a Demo Derby car.  

I told them that this would be a fantastic legacy for my MIL who was a speed demon and daredevil driver even in her 80's. She had a lead foot and a penchant for reckless driving. The gents explained how they would modify the vehicle for a Demolition Derby. They didn't even need a title or keys. 

I sold it for a paltry $100. It will be out of our 'junk' yard in the next two weeks.


Frank had asked me earlier in the winter about Rich's truck. It had been sitting in another part of the yard since 2018 also. I said I'd trade it for some plowing. 

In our area a barter deal is a good deal. Frank is dependable and honest.


Frank is going to use parts of this truck to rejuvenate one of his trucks which apparently is the same model and make.

I think I've gotten my money's worth this winter out of that truck. We've had a lot of storms and Frank has cleaned our place up.


Pat came out just before the blizzard and gave me an estimate for some work I was looking to have done. 

I hired Pat a few years ago to fix some electrical issues we were having. He has done work for us a few times. He is dependable, reasonable, and does not talk down to females. 

Pat expanded his business to include Excavating, Brush Hogging, and Forest Mulching. 

When we walked back from the summer pasture, he looked around and  asked if I was looking to clean up and get rid of the scrap from my sheds and busted garage. 

"I know a guy," he told me. Of course. Everyone knows a guy....it seems.

That guy -- Don, called me the following week. He and his brother came out to our place and had a 'looksee' around.

Scrappers. They collect metal and take it to the scrap yard for $$. 

Don and his brother took the free farm tour with me. 

They are two elderly guys who do this as a supplement to their retirement. They often go in after an auction and clean up the 'junk' left behind. The auction companies hire them for clean up.

My husband collected 'stuff'. He had piles of stuff to take for scrap. He had piles of stuff for fabricating items for tractors and skid steers. He was a welder who could fix most anything. 

He was a creative welder. I never knew him when he had a welding shop, but apparently he was legendary. 

Outside the machine shed is one of his piles of 'stuff' and leftovers from projects.

He knew every piece of metal and its location. IF I moved anything, he could tell.


I couldn't ever approach him with the idea of having someone come in to clean things up. Pictured below is the crushed garage [full of stuff] and the scrap pile around it. 

He used old hay racks to make attachments for his skid steer. Other long pieces of metal were used to cut and create other things. He was the guy who could take an Oliver loader arm and bucket and modify it to fit an Allis Chalmer tractor. 





Below is the entrance to our huge shed. We built it for an indoor arena and round pen for my mule training. He was able to fill it with a lot of 'stuff'. I'm sort of embarrassed to show this photo. 

However Don the scrap dude was impressed. He was amazed at the amount of 'stuff' that was in the shed, the garage, and in the little red shed.


The next shot is also just outside our large machine shed. He complimented me on the amount of stuff Rich had collected. Don was also happy that it was somewhat organized [to his eyes????] and not in one big pile.


In the shed there is a 1980's vintage Toyota 4X4 pick up. The scrap guys said ... You guessed it: I know a guy.

The guy would take the old truck and give me some $$ for it. I wonder ... if he knows a guy.


Honestly. There is no way in heck that I am going through all of the buildings and scrapping stuff out on my own. It is dirty, and it would take me years to haul and sort the stuff. I would even have to purchase a running truck and a trailer. --> that is not going to happen!

It will be more efficient for me to have the scrappers pay me a fee and for them to do the work. I could hire a company to come in and clean things up. That would cost me over $2,500. 

Don and his brother will pay me a fee I set which should pay for my next winter's LP for heat [unless of course the war -- not war leaves our country without heating fuel].

I like the "I know a guy" network. It surely is better than going on FB marketplace and getting all sorts of crazy yahoos coming to our remote farm. 

Word of mouth is still valuable even in this age of the internet. 


I love the

Good ol' Boy Network



23 comments:

  1. In rural areas word of mouth is most often the best solution. Looks like you have a lot of junk to get rid of.

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    1. The scrappers and welders see it as projects and money. I saw it as junk, but my junk is someone else's treasure.

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  2. Anonymous6:29 AM

    Yes, those are neat piles of scrap compared to the jumbled mess my dad left us in his small barn. It was stuffed to the rafters. RHill, TX

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    1. Yes, Rich had been sorting the metals and putting them in buckets for future use. Now it will be easier for these guys to do some of the work.

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  3. My little town has been like that, less now that it's grown. When I renovated my kitchen, each contractor brought in his friend, they all knew each other and simply took over as a team, very low cost and great workmanship. Electrician, mason, carpenter, plumber, they scheduled each other, and when my husband was rushed into the CCU, they insisted I not worry about the work or even the payment. I did pay everyone, but they were in no rush. Good old guys.
    It sounds as if Rich was in fact very orderly though it was hard for you to see!

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    1. I agree. Two years ago I hired a fellow to take trees down for me. He did it but when I hired him to do other work, he just never showed and then called to do it when winter was headed in.
      Most of the guys who advertise services on FB are looking for the really big BIG jobs and don't take on smaller ones or do it as a second thought.

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  4. It is different in rural areas! Someone always knows someone! Good work. You are making progress.

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    1. Yes, I am sure of that. Rural is different than cities or suburban areas for sure.

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  5. When I grew up on the farm, all this bartering and "I know a guy" stuff was all by word of mouth. I'm sure it would be much easier now with social media.

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    1. Actually, none of the guys I've talked to use social media. The young guys that want to take the old car probably do though.

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  6. You know guys who know guys who . . . Well you know. 😀

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  7. I agree, word of mouth is THE BEST way to find reliable, useful people to do odd jobs and tasks! Love the Demolition Derby deal, LOL! And those scrappers are godsends!

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  8. Excellent, excellent post. Written well indeed. And it's funny because to my eye, I see it organized and not just one big pile. That's funny.

    I can understand about it being hard for MIL and the car. But you guys did the right thing for sure. Not easy.

    Wishing you a great rest of the weekend.

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    1. Yes, he had his organized piles and if I moved anything he would immediately know!
      I will have a good rest of the weekend.

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    2. And when I see it, it all looks so neat to me. That's my brain as well. Funny!

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    3. I don't like clutter so it was always 'junk' to me. But I am finding useful things to use in toy dioramas like rusty bolts and broken bits of stuff. :) My Junk!

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  9. I drive my mother's 2005 Buick LeSabre I got after her death in 2020. It had 21,000 miles! You got lucky with the people you know and those they know.

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    1. These guys really wanted that Buick. It is a tank and should hold up well for them. Anyway, I get a $100 and they remove something I've wanted to get rid of for years! What a win win!

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  10. I think the key is the guy that knows the guy. Trustworthy people know trustworthy people. I don't want to get into facebook feuds but I do silently scream inside "don't hire him" "don't trust him" when I see posts.
    My middle son always knows a guy. I swear he knows most guys in my state. He was at the grocery store the other day and ran into his 42 year old sister's high school boyfriend who just traded something for a small excavator. The end of the story is that the friend came over yesterday and remove a huge broken patio at his new house in exchange for a large metal gazebo that he was not fond of that was planted in the middle of it. Barter is best!

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    1. Yes, trades and barters work well. I should be getting beef this year from a barter I made two years ago for a neighbor's cattle. I get paid in eggs in exchange for other things.
      I love how the rural world works in this way.

      I don't trust the info put on FB. Too many snakes out there.

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  11. You have a realistic plan. I am glad you know a guy, who knows a guy.

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  12. You have got the I Know A Guy down to a lovely art. So nice that non-snakes can help you out. Hope your doggies don't bark and defend too much. Linda in Kansas

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