Friday, October 31, 2025

A good and quiet day


 The bike rack that attaches to the hitch came in very handy when Mr. Charlie wanted to run about and sniff for good marking places. 

This trail has a sign: Dogs Must Be Leashed.

He was attached to the car as I assembled his cruiser and got everything together for our ride.

Yesterday was an adventure day. 

I'd spent Wednesday doing errands and taking care of 'stuff'.  

I'd had lunch with my MIL's cousin and was introduced as The Widow of Richard. I almost corrected her and said 'wife' but realized Widow was correct.

It gave me a pause for a moment.

My good neighbor Justin [a bike expert! He likes to build bikes!] came over and helped me assemble and learn how to use my bike rack. 

Thursday  seemed perfect to go try everything out. 

The temperature was 40 degrees F when we hit the trail. Coldish weather bicycling is new to me, so I layered just enough to feel a bit cool while putting our gear together. There was a 5 mph wind and the sun was shining. 

We took off and saw one runner and one other bicyclist. This is not a super popular trail in cooler weather. However, it is maintained by the county and is FREE to use. It is an old railroad bed so it is flatish and not hard to cycle.

My copilot seemed quite happy in his trailer. We did stop a few times to have a dog treat and a small walk so he could sniff and pee on things.


Parked:


Thing is, we enjoyed it so much we went further than I'd been before.

My eventual goal is to reach the WI River Slough and petal into the State Natural Area to observe birds and wildlife. The round trip would be around 20 miles, but very doable. I think going by bicycle is an extremely cool way to get around and visit areas along the Pine River and the Wisconsin River.


The little blue-green line is some of what my GPS recorded. The trail ends at Lone Rock. One of these times I will ride all the way there and buy lunch. It just seems to be a fun thing for me to do.

IF we don't have a lot of snow this winter, I will be able to cycle this trail often.

The State Bike Trails cost $25 per year from January 1st to January 1st. I may purchase a pass to go on the State Trails this coming Spring, but not at the end of October. 

I have the mode, the means, and the time to explore by bike. I can go further than a hike and see more wildlife and land.

Today I saw a flock of bluebirds flitting about and flying in front of me. In one of the pastures I passed, several Sandhill Cranes were strutting about. The Tamarack Trees were turning yellow. 


It was cool yet refreshing. Pictured are stops along the Pine River. The colors are still pretty even though most trees are barren.




When I got home, I found that the new and smaller table had been delivered. It is an Ikea sort of table, a put together thing. It is going to replace the huge round table that Rich inherited from his great grandmother. 

That old table was partially broken. Parts of it were falling apart. It was also huge and cumbersome to get around. 
While in place, there was very little room for anyone to sit around the table. The top was no longer in good shape.
I dismantled it and was surprised to find dry rot under the top. I guess it was time for it to go.

Below were the parts for putting the new table together. 


I've always wanted a 'gate leg' table. 
Or a table that had fold down sides to open up the little eating area.
The top and the fold downs
are photo'd below.


It wasn't hard to assemble and I like the extra room it gives me in the small eating area we have.
I was very surprised at how easy it was to assemble and how sturdy it feels.


The table has two leaves that fold down or up depending on your guests. Since it is mostly just myself and Charlie, I decided to go with things this way. 

I'll be putting a slightly larger rug under the table. The floor under the chairs is a concrete slab which can feel cold in the winter.

I'm pleased.

The old table was too large for the area and too hard to move around. Now it feels more open and agreeable.

Charlie's chair is on the lower right side. He does have his own chair that he likes to sit on when I am at the table.

I figured it was a good day. We traveled and explored, we constructed, and we modified our living space.

All is good.

Halloween is today. No plans for anything as we are so remote. I will be working in the pastures if it doesn't rain and if it does...well, there is always organizing and more purging to be done inside.

These shots below were photos I worked on for Halloween Themes for this year.




Have a great day! These will be my trick or treaters!




Thursday, October 30, 2025

Surprise surprise

When I called Social Security to deal with Rich's monthly payment vs my monthly payment which is called Survivor Benefits, the person that answered was a total Grump. He kept saying 'you can go to the website' and do this. He interrupted me a few times. 

The thing is, I wanted to see or talk to a human and not do it online. So cold.

He gave me a date for a phone interview and repeated that I could do this at the website.

So I figured it was going to be a monumental hassle and I expected a phone call from a stern voiced person. I recieved a letter telling me the appointment time and what they would need.

Though to tell you the truth, the letter really left many items out. I'll get to that in a minute.

The phone rang and a very chipper woman said, "Hi! My name is Mallory and I'm from the Social Security Administration and I'm going to help you today."

I nearly dropped my cellphone and fainted. WHUT? 

She was going to help me? 

We went through details. 

Things you do need to know if you have been remarried, or previously married. How long were you married previously. When were you divorced? Date of Divorce? Where were you married, where were you divorced. Is your previous husband alive? What is your previous husband's birthdate?

When was your husband married and for how long? Date of Divorce? Is his previous wife remarried? What is the previous wife's name? What is her birthdate? Was your husband a Veteran? Which branch did he serve in? 


Marriage Certificate? Did I have one? Date? Mother's maiden name? A few more easy questions and that was it. 
Other than they needed to see the Marriage Certificate.

I replied that I had an appointment on Tuesday not far from their office. She said, 

"OH great! Could you bring it in and then we will copy it and your file will be closed! Type your social security number into the Kiosk and we'll jump you to the front of the line so you can hand us the certificate and we'll copy it and you can be on your way!"

Of course they had the bank info. Oddly enough, that was on my letter.

When I got to their office, I did as they said. I spent approximately 5 minutes waiting and then was on my way. The security guard was pleasant, the lady behind the window was pleasant, and the process was painless.

So the questions regarding marriage and divorce are things they need to know. While dealing with the VA, we had to show proof of my divorce, his divorce, and our martial certificate years ago. I had gathered all of those papers [which included the final divorce papers from the court] and had put them all together in large clip that resided in my lockbox.

All of these items have been essential items to have when negotiating through the death of a spouse. There should be a class regarding these things. 

It may a lot less complicated if you have never been divorced and remarried. However, you still need a notarized marriage certificate to physically show them or send it in. They will return those papers to you.

Face the facts. We will all go through at some point in our lives with the death of a loved one. No one wants to talk about it. No one likes to discuss it. But Rich and I were always open about these things and I was the record keeper. 

My surprise was how pleasant and cordial Mallory from the Social Security Administration was and I will say, it was comforting to do this with a living breathing human. Call me old fashioned, but I like to speak to people when discussing issues. I don't like a screen that asks me questions and asks to fill in the blanks.

So cold feeling.


I do wish that there was a class that people could attend to figure out how to negotiate everything that happens when a loved one passes.


Wednesday, October 29, 2025

Wildcat Mountain State Park


I used to ride equine at Wildcat Mountain nearly every week with Rich. I started hiking it, snow shoeing it, and cross country skiing the trails about 10 years ago. That's when Rich stopped driving, riding, and doing many things he used to be able to do.

The view above is from the Lookout point not far from the parking lot. I just had my little point and shoot camera with me and cell phone. So this is just a view looking out from the Look out point framed by a tree.

This was taken two years ago on a hike with a fellow blogger Aurora in November. I think this is one of my favorite Autumn photos of all time. But then I have many!


I'd gone to see if I could find an attendant at the Park Office and of course it was closed. I wanted to pay and receive a year's State Park pass. 

Charlie and I decided to hike the Old Settler's Trail which is a 2.2 mile hike. I don't consider it a rough or tough hike but it really can be. The altitude changes on this trail add up to 581 ft. That is pretty interesting as I never had a used a GPS tracker before to figure that out. What a great workout it is!

The footing is pretty good in most places but one has to watch out for roots and rocks that hide on the trail and spring up to grab your foot! 

I came across and elderly man [maybe he wasn't elderly I just perceived it that way] who was hiking with hiking poles. I thought to myself. That is very smart with those attack rocks and roots. I've never used them. 

I tried a walking stick for a while but in true Val Fashion. I see something I want to photograph, drop the stick and then have to backtrack to pick up the stick I forgot.

The sign at the start of the Loop says that the trail takes 1.5 to 2 hours to complete. 

I told Charlie, I thought that was a good challenge. With all of our sniffing and dawdling, we did it in 1 hour and 20 minutes. 




I think these 'stairs' were probably the hardest part. They are on steep hillsides alongside bluffs and are not spaced like a normal person would walk. Charlie handled it fine. I was a bit more careful. These stairs went around a bluff called Taylor Hollow Outlook. I wish they'd cut down the brush at the outlook point so one could see better into the valleys.

Yet, the rock formations remain very impressive.
I will admit to climbing around on those rocks when hiking with my young neighbors a couple of years ago.


I don't do that when hiking solo.

Charlie seemed tireless and kept the pace going except for when he found a good scent or a perfect tree that he could pee on.



Charlie and I have hiked 151 miles since the first of October. My Garmin shows only 148, but one day I didn't have my watch along so I used MapMyWalk. I get too restless if I am stuck at home going through stuff, so I need a break and fresh air often.

I leave things right here as I don't want to charge off on other topics that have been on my mind.

Have a day.

Monday, October 27, 2025

Orange, Chairs, and Bears.

Waking up very early has its benefits.

I can use candles to light up my gourds and pumpkin display inside. The warm orange light is comforting as is the flickering from the candles.



 Then there is that advantage of getting out the door before the sun gets up.










It seemed that this day's theme was Orange. Orange and red sunrise, orange reflections on Bridge M, outside of Readstown, and orange reflections through the fog coming off from Blackbottom Creek at the bridge on Riley Road.

So on our morning walk we continued the theme.  In this shot there looks like a tiny dragon fly stuck in some sort of gossamer thread. You may have to click and enlarge the photo to see it.


Back inside I just had to take a shot of my Grumpy Planter. He never became a planter, I like his facial expression too much to stick a plant in him.
Perhaps in the future I will.


The only downside to waking up very early is on these shorter days, I feel like going to bed much earlier.

Evening hours are spent on my chair project. I like taking my time with it and enjoying the process.

Here is the chair and what it looked like after some sanding and cleaning.


So I started it. The colors were okay-ish but not quite what I wanted. I was using Chalk Paint as it is supposed to go on easier.



I checked into my acrylic paints and tried something different. I kind of liked the purple, but then I didn't.
I found my Brilliant Blue and tried it out on one of the rungs. I liked that.


The Linen White was much nicer and it looked cleaner.

I had some really fun colors in my acrylic collection so I added Lime Green to the lower legs. I liked it.  Fun and bright colors always make me happy.


I mixed two paints to come up with another color for the back legs. That utterly failed for the effect I wanted.

I wanted a warmish color for the back legs.  Hmmm. I wanted a more gold-ish tone, but this might have to do unless I can locate a soft gold color to layer over the yellow. 

Or...I'll keep the wild yellow just because it is unusual. 

It can be a reminder that days can be bright and full of light.


Here is Rich's ancient Teddy bear. I'd love to know exactly how old it was.

However his parents are gone and his sister in not in the picture.
The bear currently resides on the old Christmas Chair which may be my next paint victim. I might color it in a brilliant Christmas Theme.


I did use Google Lens on  photo of this Bear and it is a 1950's era Bear. 

I saw prices from $50 to $200 for this Bear. Not that I thought it was a beautiful bear, but it does let me know that my husband loved his childhood Teddy Bear enough to stick in his trunk of keepsakes for years.
 
He made mention that he thought he got it when he was about 6 yrs old.

That makes this bear around 70 years old?



Sunday, October 26, 2025

This and... that...

A little bit of fun ...
with the Title borrowed from Sandra's blog. After all, it was a This and That sort of day.

I took my Mini-me and Mini-Charlie along with me on our hike on Thursday. I thought it would be fun to show us looking for Fall colors.

Well, Charlie loves to investigate what I am doing. This time he photo-bombed the shot. I didn't mind, he was just checking things out.



I finally did get the shot.


In between cleaning the pasture and other mundane chores, I stopped to do a Halloween photo with my creepy doll head and a Lego Pizza Zombie.
After all, I have to stop once in a while and have a bit of creative fun.


This morning I went to the Farmer's Market. It was the last one for the season. I'll have to wait for May now to get all the goodies I used to get.

I got to see Ruth, she is a Mennonite who has a bake shop in a town about an hour away. Rich used to send me each week for some of her cinnamon rolls and pie. He loved his pie. Her pies are not super sweet but are absolutely delicious. Last year I purchased enough of her fruit pies to get us through the winter so Rich could have his pie!

Ruth was so happy to see me and asked how I was and how Rich was. I hadn't been to the Market most of this year.
I told her that Rich was gone. She stopped packing up the Apple Pie I was going to purchase ... she came around her table with tears in her eyes.
I got one of the longest hugs in the world.

Her hug was real. By that I mean it was long and it felt more than a pat on the back. There was true emotion and feeling behind it. She has never met my husband, but knew what he loved from her bakery. It was all I could do not to start sobbing when she did that.

I pulled out my wallet to pay when she finished putting the pie in a bag. She waved my money away and said it was a gift. She understands loss as one of her sons passed away last summer. She sighed and handed me the pie. I will treasure each bite.

Another vendor is a woman I used to work with as a Security Officer. We've known each other for many years. I purchased some of her wild looking gourds. We've had a booming year for squash, gourds, pumpkins, and anything from that veggie family. She bagged my gourds and then proceeded to add some more to my bag with a wink.

Things that are different now that I no longer feed the Meat and Potato man. My supper consisted of fresh squash along with beautiful yellow cauliflower, red onion, pea pods, kale, little turnips, and other veggies tossed in. I just have a taste for all the vegetables these days. Toss the veggies in a pan and sauté everything then put it over something else. Tomorrow I'll add some bacon to the mix to get my protein. 



The rest of my day included picking up logs and piling them to burn along with cleaning up more garden debris. 

The mules sorted through the garden debris and ate what they wanted from it. They are my garden recyclers.

Tomorrow looks like a nicer day than today. Charlie says he wants to go hiking. I guess we will take care of that. 

Here are a couple pictures of the really cute and gnarly gourds.

They are so pretty and interesting.



Tomorrow morning I may try and take a few shots of them lit up with candle light.


Meanwhile, I'll leave you with some of the ornaments Ariel and I did last weekend. I finally got some acrylic glossy spray for them and ... Viola!

They are so pretty!




 

Friday, October 24, 2025

Lots of Orange and chasing Fall

Can't sleep? 

3AM and the house is silent. Too quiet.

Since nothing else worked, I got up. 

I lit up two candles and then noticed the nice light that shone on the fall decorations. I couldn't help myself but to set up the camera and see if I could capture the orange light tossed off by the candles.






By the time the sun rose, I was ready for something else to do. Charlie and I decided to take a very early morning walk. This is where our driveway meets the ridgetop.


I spent the rest of the morning clearing burdock and making brush piles in the mule's winter pasture. I cannot believe how many burdock plants there are! 
This area can't be mowed as it is full of rocks and logs.

We decided to take a break and hike the Rockton Trail on the Reserve. Bright orange and yellow were the colors of the day. There are some bow hunters in parts of the Reserve, but they are usually not near any well used trails.

However, bright colors are best thing for hiking at this time of the year. 




I parked at the Rockton canoe landing and headed down the Old 131 trail which is paved. Actually, it should be called the Old County P trail. The northern part of the Old 131 trail [as it is named now], was actually a county road that met up with the old highway.

Any time there was a heavy rain the County Road was closed due to it being right next to the Kickapoo.

You can see that the trail had river water on it from Tuesday's rain.


The river. 
I was standing on the paved trail when I took this shot.



One thing most people miss while biking, hiking, or riding horses on this trail are the cold rock vents. These little bluffs have cracks and vents in them. On a warm day you can stand on the trail and feel the cold damp air coming from the rock face. I've walked up to the rocks and cooled off on hot days.


The loop I did stayed mostly on the Ho Chunk land which is open for public use. This covered bridge replaced the county road bridge over a small stream.


After the bridge, I followed the Indian Creek Trail to the second Ho Chunk bridge. This trail leaves the Old 131 Trail and used to be a secondary road also.


Charlie perked up once we got into the woods again.  This section was rather muddy and the little dog really got his little jacket full of mud splatters.


When I got back out on top of the ridge I came across a gent who just loaded up his Spring Spaniel. We talked about Pheasant Hunting, Quail, Deer, and dogs. He was also a Forester who helped people decided what trees should be taken and how to keep a forest producing. He had a lot to say about clear cutting and poor forest practices.

We probably talked for a half hour. 

When we finally got back to the Blue Beast, there was a mom and two grandma's loading kids into strollers for a walk on the paved trail.

I was done chasing colors and leaf peeping for the day. Brush piles waited for me at home as well as a Charlie bath.

Charlie did not like his bath.


Another beautiful fall day completed.