Mulewings
"Success is the Best Revenge"
Thursday, November 06, 2025
Wyalusing State Park
Tuesday, November 04, 2025
Sunday Morning coming up
The only sounds I heard were some crows calling and flying overhead, along with the whisper of locust leaves and some oak leaves drifting down.
Off to my west I could hear a deer snort and blow. Either it scented me or something else had disturbed it. I waited.
The Queen Anne's Lace was delicately decorated with frost.
The Vervain that I was sitting next to reflected the morning color hues.
Finally the sun was high enough to shine on our meadow and I waited. Most mornings, the does will come out and cross our meadow and browse quietly before jumping our fence and heading east into the neighbor's land.
They didn't this time. So I took a few more 'frosty' photos and decided to check our trail cam which I'd set out a couple of weeks ago. According to the time strip, on the trail cam, this guy was in the woods west of me.
He sure is a pretty one.
Here he is a few days earlier.
However, I looked through about 200+ photos of deer and we have quite a few who like to come and either sleep in front of the camera or wander through.
I did see a short video of one buck chasing girls, so it is obvious that the rut season is on.
The day broke wide open and I hunted up a tiny bit of color.
A blackberry bush that had climbed the barbed wire fence and was glowing from the morning sun.
What a brilliant morning to be alive.
Monday, November 03, 2025
Turn the page
November 22-30th is when the majority of the gun hunters are out. December 1-10th is the muzzleloader antlerless hunt.
December 11-14th is a special antlerless gun hunt.
December 24th through Jan 1 is another special antlerless Holiday Gun Hunt.
If that isn't enough, Bow Season lasts through January 4th.
I spent most of the day yesterday with another gal friend. We enjoyed an afternoon of fun things.
Friday, October 31, 2025
A good and quiet day
The bike rack that attaches to the hitch came in very handy when Mr. Charlie wanted to run about and sniff for good marking places.
This trail has a sign: Dogs Must Be Leashed.
He was attached to the car as I assembled his cruiser and got everything together for our ride.
Yesterday was an adventure day.
I'd spent Wednesday doing errands and taking care of 'stuff'.
I'd had lunch with my MIL's cousin and was introduced as The Widow of Richard. I almost corrected her and said 'wife' but realized Widow was correct.
It gave me a pause for a moment.
My good neighbor Justin [a bike expert! He likes to build bikes!] came over and helped me assemble and learn how to use my bike rack.
Thursday seemed perfect to go try everything out.
The temperature was 40 degrees F when we hit the trail. Coldish weather bicycling is new to me, so I layered just enough to feel a bit cool while putting our gear together. There was a 5 mph wind and the sun was shining.
We took off and saw one runner and one other bicyclist. This is not a super popular trail in cooler weather. However, it is maintained by the county and is FREE to use. It is an old railroad bed so it is flatish and not hard to cycle.
My copilot seemed quite happy in his trailer. We did stop a few times to have a dog treat and a small walk so he could sniff and pee on things.
Parked:
Thing is, we enjoyed it so much we went further than I'd been before.
My eventual goal is to reach the WI River Slough and petal into the State Natural Area to observe birds and wildlife. The round trip would be around 20 miles, but very doable. I think going by bicycle is an extremely cool way to get around and visit areas along the Pine River and the Wisconsin River.
The little blue-green line is some of what my GPS recorded. The trail ends at Lone Rock. One of these times I will ride all the way there and buy lunch. It just seems to be a fun thing for me to do.
IF we don't have a lot of snow this winter, I will be able to cycle this trail often.
The State Bike Trails cost $25 per year from January 1st to January 1st. I may purchase a pass to go on the State Trails this coming Spring, but not at the end of October.
I have the mode, the means, and the time to explore by bike. I can go further than a hike and see more wildlife and land.
Today I saw a flock of bluebirds flitting about and flying in front of me. In one of the pastures I passed, several Sandhill Cranes were strutting about. The Tamarack Trees were turning yellow.
It was cool yet refreshing. Pictured are stops along the Pine River. The colors are still pretty even though most trees are barren.
Thursday, October 30, 2025
Surprise surprise
When I called Social Security to deal with Rich's monthly payment vs my monthly payment which is called Survivor Benefits, the person that answered was a total Grump. He kept saying 'you can go to the website' and do this. He interrupted me a few times.
The thing is, I wanted to see or talk to a human and not do it online. So cold.
He gave me a date for a phone interview and repeated that I could do this at the website.
So I figured it was going to be a monumental hassle and I expected a phone call from a stern voiced person. I recieved a letter telling me the appointment time and what they would need.
Though to tell you the truth, the letter really left many items out. I'll get to that in a minute.
The phone rang and a very chipper woman said, "Hi! My name is Mallory and I'm from the Social Security Administration and I'm going to help you today."
I nearly dropped my cellphone and fainted. WHUT?
She was going to help me?
We went through details.
Things you do need to know if you have been remarried, or previously married. How long were you married previously. When were you divorced? Date of Divorce? Where were you married, where were you divorced. Is your previous husband alive? What is your previous husband's birthdate?
When was your husband married and for how long? Date of Divorce? Is his previous wife remarried? What is the previous wife's name? What is her birthdate? Was your husband a Veteran? Which branch did he serve in?
Marriage Certificate? Did I have one? Date? Mother's maiden name? A few more easy questions and that was it.
Other than they needed to see the Marriage Certificate.
I replied that I had an appointment on Tuesday not far from their office. She said,
"OH great! Could you bring it in and then we will copy it and your file will be closed! Type your social security number into the Kiosk and we'll jump you to the front of the line so you can hand us the certificate and we'll copy it and you can be on your way!"
Of course they had the bank info. Oddly enough, that was on my letter.
When I got to their office, I did as they said. I spent approximately 5 minutes waiting and then was on my way. The security guard was pleasant, the lady behind the window was pleasant, and the process was painless.
So the questions regarding marriage and divorce are things they need to know. While dealing with the VA, we had to show proof of my divorce, his divorce, and our martial certificate years ago. I had gathered all of those papers [which included the final divorce papers from the court] and had put them all together in large clip that resided in my lockbox.
All of these items have been essential items to have when negotiating through the death of a spouse. There should be a class regarding these things.
It may a lot less complicated if you have never been divorced and remarried. However, you still need a notarized marriage certificate to physically show them or send it in. They will return those papers to you.
Face the facts. We will all go through at some point in our lives with the death of a loved one. No one wants to talk about it. No one likes to discuss it. But Rich and I were always open about these things and I was the record keeper.
My surprise was how pleasant and cordial Mallory from the Social Security Administration was and I will say, it was comforting to do this with a living breathing human. Call me old fashioned, but I like to speak to people when discussing issues. I don't like a screen that asks me questions and asks to fill in the blanks.
So cold feeling.
I do wish that there was a class that people could attend to figure out how to negotiate everything that happens when a loved one passes.
Wednesday, October 29, 2025
Wildcat Mountain State Park
I used to ride equine at Wildcat Mountain nearly every week with Rich. I started hiking it, snow shoeing it, and cross country skiing the trails about 10 years ago. That's when Rich stopped driving, riding, and doing many things he used to be able to do.
I think these 'stairs' were probably the hardest part. They are on steep hillsides alongside bluffs and are not spaced like a normal person would walk. Charlie handled it fine. I was a bit more careful. These stairs went around a bluff called Taylor Hollow Outlook. I wish they'd cut down the brush at the outlook point so one could see better into the valleys.
Monday, October 27, 2025
Orange, Chairs, and Bears.
Waking up very early has its benefits.
I can use candles to light up my gourds and pumpkin display inside. The warm orange light is comforting as is the flickering from the candles.
Then there is that advantage of getting out the door before the sun gets up.
It seemed that this day's theme was Orange. Orange and red sunrise, orange reflections on Bridge M, outside of Readstown, and orange reflections through the fog coming off from Blackbottom Creek at the bridge on Riley Road.
So on our morning walk we continued the theme. In this shot there looks like a tiny dragon fly stuck in some sort of gossamer thread. You may have to click and enlarge the photo to see it.
The only downside to waking up very early is on these shorter days, I feel like going to bed much earlier.
Evening hours are spent on my chair project. I like taking my time with it and enjoying the process.
Here is the chair and what it looked like after some sanding and cleaning.



























































