Saturday, January 17, 2026

Let's make deals

 You all might recall the guy who is a neighbor, a farmer, and runs an excavation and gravel business.  He redid our steep driveway a couple of years ago. 

He has remained a solid guy for snowplowing at $50 per plow. He also checks in on me when he does plowing. I call that pretty neighborly. He knows I'm here on my own.

A week ago Frank came while I was feeding critters. I didn't have my car moved out of his way, he said he would plow around it.

Then the conversation.

"Say....whaddyagoing to do with that Chevy Truck over there?"

Junk it.

"Can I buy it for parts?"

Can I trade you for plowing?

"That's a lot of plowing."

That's less $ out of my pocket.

"That's true. I can do that."

Good Trade then, if you can use it?

"Good Trade."

I reached in through the window of his truck and we shook hands.

Deal--- Done.


There are still places in the US where a handshake is the real thing. The art of trading in a rural area is better than money or contracts.

Today Frank stopped by again. He asked if he could look at the skid steer I had. I'd previously asked him if he knew of anyone who would be interested in it. 

I am not qualified to use it or care for it. I don't get along with machinery. It is a nice piece of equipment and shouldn't just sit in a shed and get dusty and eaten by mice.

I helped him start up the skid steer and left him to it in the shed. He ran it through its paces while I tended to the mules.

When he turned it off, I walked in. 

"How much for it?" he asked.

I told him. I priced it on what we'd paid for it. I know could get more if I advertised on Market Place but I didn't want to deal with strangers calling and asking questions I couldn't answer. OR strange men coming to my place.

Then I took him out to where the hay fork and plow were sitting on the old hay hauler. I told him that the implements went with it.

We stood while the snow fell all around us. Frank seemed to be thinking.

"The implements too?" 

Yup, they go with that particular skid steer.

I asked Frank if he would consider some Dozer and Excavation work for me. I explained my project ideas while we walked back to the house. 

Frank stopped and looked at the fallen down garage.

"I can take care of that for you too," he said. "We can do this and things will look great for when you are ready to have your auctions. I'll be happy to help out."

I was surprised and pleased. I said I wanted to bring this place back to its glory days.

When I sell this place, I want people to see this incredibly beautiful place we have without all the piles of junk laying around.

Frank nodded. "It is a beautiful place you have here. Cleaning it up will really make it shine."


Another handshake. He was giving our old truck new life as a 'parts donor'.  

He was giving the skid steer a good home too. Plus with our trade deals, we'd both come out on top.

Funny how that is. The things that were so precious to Rich will be going just a couple miles away and put to good use.


Let's make a deal.









19 comments:

  1. That's solid negotiating and a win-win for you both! Way to go.

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    1. Thanks, I've been told that I suck at it, but I think this worked out best...time will tell.

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  2. You're a great dealmaker. I like that the equipment will be in good hands. That's a good feeling. I think he'd approve.

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    1. I hope so. I know that Rich 'loved' LOVED his skid steer so I didn't want to sell it to an auction company or a dealer, and I wanted to know where it went. I'm weird.
      But I think he will approve of the work being done to make our place prettier. It was all work he was intending to do before his cancer diagnosis and cascade of other health problems.

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  3. Aww, what a good news story. I am glad you have such wonderful neighbors in your life. Good People (and so are you)

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    1. Yes some rural communities really are different. When a farmer down the road was severely injured in a car accident, neighbors from all over lined up to milk his cows and do his field work.
      The same happened when another neighbor had quadruple bypasses done and she needed her fields planted.

      We may all be from different political spectrums, but we all reach out and help.

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  4. Anonymous8:17 PM

    Sounds like an excellent plan for both of you! Way to go Val! Lori

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    1. Yes, imagine having help for things we've---> I've wanted to do for over 10 yrs!

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  5. I’m impressed. There is admirable spirit and trust here.

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    1. Frank has done odd jobs for us ever since he moved here and married about 30 years ago. He has never gone back on his word at all.
      All of our work with him has been on a handshake and verbal. No contracts to sign. An estimation and work done and paid for right away.
      I know I cannot do that with the other guy I had hired, he never even followed through with the job the second time.

      Dependable and honor are such good qualities.

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  6. Sounds like a pleasant deal! Don't barter little Charlie away! Linda in Kansas

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  7. The handshake was sacrosanct in the rural area where I was brought up. Looks like you and Frank have come to a fine arrangement. Kudos to both of you.

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  8. Well done. I've done this here, as well. Here it's $150 for a snow plow. We'll have to do that sometime. We're not getting any younger. :-)

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  9. This is wonderful for both of you. We trade storage space for farm equipment for bring round bales out one a month. Works both parties. I can't wait to see what you have done.

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  10. It's wonderful when respect and friendship resonate in business dealings.
    Well done... Congratulations.
    What goes around comes around. A big hug for you.

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  11. Anonymous9:38 AM

    A good deal for both of you! RHill, TX

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  12. Love everything about this!

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  13. Anonymous4:56 PM

    LD....I have a truck that I should make a deal with, withsomeone. On a bad day I want to donate it. On a good day I will just keep it and keep charging the battery up every six months. I might even buy a newer used on someday that is smaller.

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  14. What a great way to do things.

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