Thursday, April 10, 2008
Days like this...
I rarely answer the phone becuase it is usually for hubby.
Imagine my surprise to get this. "V, this is J [former boss]. When are you coming in to train the new gal? She needs help."
Me, cautiously: I'm working full time, don't have spare time.
Silence.
Him: Well you need to come in and help her, you are hurting her by not training her. (am I supposed to break down and cry now? I've been gone over 2 wks and truly don't have spare time.)
Me: Silence, thinking.
Him: It is not fair to her you are hurting the new gal, so call me. It doesn't bother me a bit but you are hurting her.
Click~end of conversation. Hmm.
Well he hung up on me so I have no impulsive feelings to 'rush' out and have anything to do with him.
Besides, no one trained me either.
Was this a jab at a guilt trip?
My proper response should have been something like this: "And this affects me how?" Too late to come back with an answer like that.
Now the new girls at work, the two ones that I will be working with have done their best to make me feel welcome. This includes things such as~~~ When I say good morning in cheery way: Blank stares and not a word.
The gal that is training me is tired of them being cold like they were to her. I laugh about it. It takes time and if my two main co-workers are going to be cold as fish, then that is their problem.
I do my job with a smile on my face, the doctors and nurses all smile and are nice to me. Only back in our room is it frigid.
I'm not really too concerned as I rarely make a habit of being chummy with my co-workers.
But a nice good morning goes a long way.
Fact is...I really 'dig' my job. I like it a lot!
Other fact is, management has hinted that they will cross train me too, so I may become a department floater.
My trainer, a young gal I'll call J, was so frustrated.
She asked why in the heck did they beg for help then turn around and treat the new person [me] like I had the plague?
I told her not to worry so much. I was the newby, I'd get blamed for things. I'd worked on and off in office settings for 30 yrs and this was child's play.
So yes I still LOVE my job.
And I still dislike my old job.
Ex boss did not get any points for calling up and using a rude tone of voice.
Oh and BTW!
One more week of school!!!!
You go girl...after all, you're cool and cheerful is always good. They'll come around. They're just afraid of the newby. They have no idea what a force you are but probably have some suspicions. Keep up the happy face. They world needs it. I LOVE MY JOB TOO! What a wonderful change.
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